Kevin Kelly, adding 101 new bits to his growing collection of pithy advice. A few of my favorites:

  • Forget trying to decide what your life’s destiny is. That’s too grand. Instead, just figure out what you should do in the next 2 years.
  • Try to define yourself by what you love and embrace, rather than what you hate and refuse.
  • Read a lot of history so you can understand how weird the past was; that way you will be comfortable with how weird the future will be.
  • There should be at least one thing in your life you enjoy despite being no good at it. This is your play time, which will keep you young. Never apologize for it.
  • The patience you need for big things, is developed by your patience with the little things.
  • There is a profound difference between thinking less of yourself (not useful), and thinking of yourself less (better).
    Avoid making any kind of important decision when you are either hungry, angry, lonely, or tired (HALT)
// 01.07.26

From a highly enjoyable “So you wanna de-bog yourself” (about getting “unstuck”) by Adam Mastroianni:

“Declining the dragon” – a medieval knight metaphor for getting unstuck: Sometimes I’ll know exactly what I need to do in order to leave the bog, but I’m too afraid to do it. I’m afraid to tell the truth, or make someone mad, or take a risk. And so I dither, hoping that the future will not require me to be brave.

Everybody thinks this is a bad strategy because it merely prolongs my suffering, but that’s not why it’s a dumb thing to do. Yes, every moment I dither is a moment I suffer. But when I finally do the brave thing, that’s not the climax of my suffering—that moment is the opposite of suffering. Being brave feels good. I mean, have you ever stood up to a bully, or conquered stage fright, or finally stopped being embarrassed about what you love? It’s the most wonderful feeling in the world. Whenever you chicken out, you don’t just feel the pain of cowardice; you miss out on the pleasure of courage.

Medieval knights used to wander around hoping for honorable adventures to pop up so that they could demonstrate their bravery. They were desperate for big, scary dragons to appear. When I put off doing the brave thing, I am declining the dragon: missing an opportunity to do something that might be scary in the moment but would ultimately make me feel great.

The whole post makes for great early January reading.

// 01.06.26

About working as a hospital employee, from “The Young Physician Trap: Trading Autonomy for Salary” in Claim Denied:

And then comes the pay cut. It’s framed as “efficiency.” Or “underperformance.” The implication is clear: you’re the problem.

By now, the hospital knows they have you.

You bought a home. You structured your life around the salary they dangled. Maybe you counted on loan forgiveness. There might be a non-compete at play. Maybe your spouse’s career is tied to the area. Leaving suddenly isn’t easy.

// 01.02.26

In 2025, I shared something like 90 regular posts and 30 asides (clearly, I have not fully embraced the microblog component of the site I added during the 2023 redesign). The total wordcount of all that writing is a bit over 70,000 words (closer to 55,000 excluding blockquotes). So I wrote a book this year. Kinda. Well, it’s something at least.

I also have 65 articles drafted, some of which will definitely never generate photons on any of your devices, but many of which just need polishing and will appear here in 2026. As a reminder, all regular posts find their way to the archive list, and the asides are collected here. Happy New Year!

 

// 12.31.25

From The World I See, a memoir by the godmother of AI, Dr. Fei-Fei Li:

This, collectively, is the next North Star: reimagining AI from the ground up as a human-centered practice. I don’t see it as a change in the journey’s direction so much as a broadening of its scope. AI must become as committed to humanity as it’s always been to science. It should remain collaborative and deferential in the best academic tradition, but unafraid to confront the real world. Starlight, after all, is manifold. Its white glow, once unraveled, reveals every color that can be seen.

// 12.30.25