Following up from our brief discussion of yoyu, an excerpt from George Saunders’ 2013 convocation speech at Syracuse, presented without unnecessary commentary:

When young, we’re anxious — understandably — to find out if we’ve got what it takes. Can we succeed? Can we build a viable life for ourselves? But you — in particular you, of this generation — may have noticed a certain cyclical quality to ambition. You do well in high-school, in hopes of getting into a good college, so you can do well in the good college, in the hopes of getting a good job, so you can do well in the good job so you can . . .

And this is actually O.K. If we’re going to become kinder, that process has to include taking ourselves seriously — as doers, as accomplishers, as dreamers. We have to do that, to be our best selves.

Still, accomplishment is unreliable. “Succeeding,” whatever that might mean to you, is hard, and the need to do so constantly renews itself (success is like a mountain that keeps growing ahead of you as you hike it), and there’s the very real danger that “succeeding” will take up your whole life, while the big questions go untended.

So, quick, end-of-speech advice: Since, according to me, your life is going to be a gradual process of becoming kinder and more loving: Hurry up. Speed it along. Start right now. There’s a confusion in each of us, a sickness, really: selfishness. But there’s also a cure. So be a good and proactive and even somewhat desperate patient on your own behalf — seek out the most efficacious anti-selfishness medicines, energetically, for the rest of your life.

 

// 02.17.26

From writer George Saunders’ recent interview in the NYT Magazine:

[Chekhov] says a work of art doesn’t have to solve a problem — it just has to formulate it correctly… My job, rather than answering your question, is to allow [the characters] to make the best possible case for their view…I wrote myself into a place where the question got more and more profound, and I found myself less and less capable of giving a definitive answer. That’s not for an artist to do. You ratchet the question up, and you go, “Yeah, that’s a tough one.”

See also: his advice for graduates.

 

// 02.13.26

Freya India, writing in After Babel:

When so few seem interested in being a person, isn’t that the best time to be one? Maybe this is a moment for optimism. You just have to be human.

[…]

To have your own voice you need to venture out into the world. You need to take risks and try things, you need experiences and adventures…So go outside, say yes to things, be scared and excited and uncomfortable. Feel your hands shake before you speak, your legs ache after a long day, your face flush when asking her out. Experience it all, the real world with all your senses, the fear of getting lost, the relief of finding your way, the hands of another person. Look people in the eye and learn about the world from living in it.

// 02.06.26

I 3D-printed an MRI for my daughter’s somewhat excessive Calico Critter collection.

My wife overheard her playing with it, as one critter was telling another it was time for her scan.

“It’s your turn to take a nap in the MRI machine,” one says.

“What’s an MRI machine?” asks the patient.

“Oh, it’s just a machine that gives you extra critter magic.”

// 02.04.26