From Herbert Simon’s Models of My Life:
The real economic actor is, in fact, a satisficer, a person who accepts ‘good enough’ alternatives, not because less is preferred to more but because there is no choice.
Since my world picture approximates reality only crudely, I cannot aspire to optimize anything; at most, I can aim at satisficing. Searching for the best can only dissipate scarce cognitive resources; the best is the enemy of the good.
Combine the important economic concept of satisficing with the classic Goodhart’s Law: when a measure becomes a target, it ceases to be a good measure.
True optimization is essentially impossible, but even those futile attempts to select for specific features (compensation, time off, etc) can be fraught. These are all important factors of a job, to be sure. But they are also important because they are easily measurable and comparable.
In a competitive market, the grass is always greener somewhere, and there is a lot of green grass out there at the moment. One component of job satisfaction is, of course, attitude:
Hard days aren’t necessarily bad days, though they can be.
Sometimes a day so busy that even the bathroom seems too far away can nonetheless be filled with meaning and purpose.
Loafing is not an inherent good, free time doesn’t intrinsically bring happiness, and work—even extra work—doesn’t always have to mean frustration, tiredness, burnout, despair, etc.
You get to choose your attitude and whether you believe that what you do matters.
Whether you quiet quit or actually quit, just make sure you understand your role in the intolerable situation. It’ll help you make the most of your next opportunity.